So while looking for Jerry, I found Ellen, who died under the name Ellen P Lacy. Parents are correct and a "Jim Barnard" was the informant for her death certificate. That would be James Spencer Barnard, another of her sons. James and Jerry Barnard went to prison for killing a man, but they were released early. Again, a story for another time. I don't know who the Mr. Lacy was who gave her his last name, which she took to her grave. I haven't been able to find Ellen in the 1910 census records. I know she was buried in Mount Olive Cemetery, which used to be DeWeese Cemetery. I think. There is a Mount Olive Cemetery which at one time was the DeWeese Cemetery in Union County, Kentucky, where Ellen died. But there's also a Mount Olive Cemetery in Hardin County, Illinois, where this particular branch of my family did most of their living and dying. So which Mount Olive Cemetery is she buried in? I wish I knew because if I did, I'd create a Find A Grave memorial for her so the rest of my Barnard side of the family could find her.
Here's her death record. I (heart) Kentucky.